I just finished trying to clear up a misunderstanding with a friend. Even with the best of intentions, these things happen. And right before, I was on the phone with my brother's insurance person, trying to understand clearly what repairs were going to be paid, and the deductible and all the convoluted ins and outs of the estate. And, though headache producing, nothing can really be done until I have a court order declaring me next of kin and the death certificate.
The ray of light is the kindness and sensitivity of this claims person, who has been helpful, patient, and supportive. He really seems to be on my side, and trying to make everything as smooth and stress free as possible. He acts like a friend. So there are these glimmers of Buddha nature showing up and officials and others who would not have to take so much care to do their jobs, but are choosing to work with the utmost sensitivity. Wow. There are Buddhas everywhere.
I, in turn, am attempting to call up my own Buddha nature, and be patient, kind and appreciative for all the hard work, and thankless, often, that they do with the public. The tone of voice is so crucial, especially to me right now, when I'm very fragile, and I'm blessed with these encounters which could so easily be upsetting, but are instead comforting. I am comforted by strangers, and blessed by their kindnesses. Tennessee Williams rules!
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