Last night at writing group we were very efficient about discussing each other's work and even did a quick write and read those. We ended on the dot. But then, the facilitator asked if we had any personal issues to bring up and we had a rip roaring conversation about being mothers-in-law and the perils and pitfalls of our relations with our grown children. I really wish someone would write a book to guide us along the path of readjusting our relationships with our kids, how to speak appropriately, how to let go, and how to know when to shut up.
But this huge shift is a difficult adjustment for all of us. And we offend our kids without knowing the "rules" if they even know the rules. So our solidarity together is important. I went home feeling supported and soothed. It's not just me; this stage of moving off into the wings is challenging and confusing at times. But we're in it together.
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